When Everything Falls Apart

You know the feeling. The bills are stacking up. The phone rings and you do not want to answer. You lie awake at night running numbers that do not add up. A financial crisis does not just threaten your bank account. It threatens your shalom bayis, your dignity, your sense of who you are.

You are not here because things are going well. You are here because they are not, and you need to talk to Hashem about it.

Kapitel 34 of Tehillim was composed by Dovid HaMelech (King David) at one of the most desperate moments of his life. He was on the run, trapped before a hostile king, with no way out that he could see. And from that place of total vulnerability, Dovid wrote words that have given Yidden chizuk through every kind of crisis for three thousand years. This kapitel speaks directly to that pain.

Before You Say This Kapitel

Before you begin the kapitel, remember that Hashem already knows what you are going through. He sees the unpaid bills, the conversations you dread, the shame you carry. Speak to Him from that place, just as you are:

Ribono Shel Olam, I come before You with nothing but the truth. I am facing overwhelming hardship and I am afraid. I am afraid of losing what I have built. I am afraid of what tomorrow will bring. I feel the weight of this on my family, on my marriage, on my own sense of worth. Hashem, You feed the entire world. You open Your hand and satisfy every living thing. Please do not forget me. I do not ask for riches. I ask for enough. Enough to feed my family. Enough to pay what I owe. Enough to stand up again. Give me the clarity to see what I must do and the strength to do it. And where my own hands cannot reach, please reach for me. I trust that You are close to the brokenhearted, and right now, Hashem, that is me. Elokah d’Meir aneni.

If giving tzedakah, add:

In the zechus of the tzedakah I am giving to Rabbi Meir Baal Haness, even from the little I have, I ask You, Hashem, to open the gates of parnassah for me and my family. Just as I am giving to those who have less, please send those who can help me in my time of need.

Kapitel 34: The Full Prayer

לְדָוִד בְּשַׁנּוֹתוֹ אֶת־טַעְמוֹ לִפְנֵי אֲבִימֶלֶךְ וַיְגָרְשֵׁהוּ וַיֵּלַךְ
אֲבָרְכָה אֶת־יְהֹוָה בְּכׇל־עֵת תָּמִיד תְּהִלָּתוֹ בְּפִי
בַּיהֹוָה תִּתְהַלֵּל נַפְשִׁי יִשְׁמְעוּ עֲנָוִים וְיִשְׂמָחוּ
גַּדְּלוּ לַיהֹוָה אִתִּי וּנְרוֹמְמָה שְׁמוֹ יַחְדָּו
דָּרַשְׁתִּי אֶת־יְהֹוָה וְעָנָנִי וּמִכׇּל־מְגוּרוֹתַי הִצִּילָנִי
הִבִּיטוּ אֵלָיו וְנָהָרוּ וּפְנֵיהֶם אַל־יֶחְפָּרוּ
זֶה עָנִי קָרָא וַיהֹוָה שָׁמֵעַ וּמִכׇּל־צָרוֹתָיו הוֹשִׁיעוֹ
חֹנֶה מַלְאַךְ־יְהֹוָה סָבִיב לִירֵאָיו וַיְחַלְּצֵם
טַעֲמוּ וּרְאוּ כִּי־טוֹב יְהֹוָה אַשְׁרֵי הַגֶּבֶר יֶחֱסֶה־בּוֹ
יְראוּ אֶת־יְהֹוָה קְדֹשָׁיו כִּי־אֵין מַחְסוֹר לִירֵאָיו
כְּפִירִים רָשׁוּ וְרָעֵבוּ וְדֹרְשֵׁי יְהֹוָה לֹא־יַחְסְרוּ כׇל־טוֹב
לְכוּ־בָנִים שִׁמְעוּ־לִי יִרְאַת יְהֹוָה אֲלַמֶּדְכֶם
מִי־הָאִישׁ הֶחָפֵץ חַיִּים אֹהֵב יָמִים לִרְאוֹת טוֹב
נְצֹר לְשׁוֹנְךָ מֵרָע וּשְׂפָתֶיךָ מִדַּבֵּר מִרְמָה
סוּר מֵרָע וַעֲשֵׂה־טוֹב בַּקֵּשׁ שָׁלוֹם וְרׇדְפֵהוּ
עֵינֵי יְהֹוָה אֶל־צַדִּיקִים וְאׇזְנָיו אֶל־שַׁוְעָתָם
פְּנֵי יְהֹוָה בְּעֹשֵׂי רָע לְהַכְרִית מֵאֶרֶץ זִכְרָם
צָעֲקוּ וַיהֹוָה שָׁמֵעַ וּמִכׇּל־צָרוֹתָם הִצִּילָם
קָרוֹב יְהֹוָה לְנִשְׁבְּרֵי־לֵב וְאֶת־דַּכְּאֵי־רוּחַ יוֹשִׁיעַ
רַבּוֹת רָעוֹת צַדִּיק וּמִכֻּלָּם יַצִּילֶנּוּ יְהֹוָה
שֹׁמֵר כׇּל־עַצְמוֹתָיו אַחַת מֵהֵנָּה לֹא נִשְׁבָּרָה
תְּמוֹתֵת רָשָׁע רָעָה וְשֹׂנְאֵי צַדִּיק יֶאְשָׁמוּ
פֹּדֶה יְהֹוָה נֶפֶשׁ עֲבָדָיו וְלֹא יֶאְשְׁמוּ כׇּל־הַחֹסִים בּוֹ

Dovid composed this kapitel at one of his lowest points. He had fled from Shaul, found himself in enemy territory before Avimelech (identified by Rashi with Achish, king of Gath), and had to pretend to be out of his mind just to survive. From that place of desperation, Dovid did not despair. He turned to Hashem and poured out his heart. That is exactly what true tefillah looks like: crying out from the depths, trusting that Hashem hears.

What These Words Mean for You

Zeh oni koro vaHashem shomei’a “Here was a poor man who cried out, and God heard.”

The word oni (poor) does not only mean someone without money. It means someone with nothing left to lean on. No connections, no backup plan, no safety net. That is the person Dovid is talking about. And what did this person do? He cried out. He did not have a polished tefillah or the right words. He just called to Hashem from his pain. And Hashem heard. The pasuk itself teaches that Hashem is found among those who are broken. When you feel like you have nothing, that is precisely when Hashem is closest and most ready to hear.

Korov Hashem l’nishb’rei leiv “God is close to the brokenhearted.”

This is one of the most well-known lines in all of Tehillim, and for good reason. The word korov means close, near, right here. Not far away, not watching from a distance. Close. When your heart is broken by a financial crisis, when you feel shame and fear and the heaviness will not lift, Dovid is telling you: this is precisely when Hashem draws closest to you. The Midrash (Vayikra Rabbah 7:2) teaches, in the name of Rabbi Alexandri, that while a person disdains broken vessels, the vessels Hashem uses are precisely those that are broken — as the pasuk says, “Korov Hashem l’nishb’rei leiv.” Your brokenness is not a barrier to Him; it is what brings Him close.

K’firim roshu v’ro’eivu, v’dorshei Hashem loi yachs’ru chol toiv “Young lions may go hungry and starve, but those who seek God shall not lack any good thing.”

Young lions are the strongest creatures in the wild. They have teeth and claws and speed, and yet even they can go hungry. Dovid is teaching a fundamental lesson: strength alone does not guarantee parnassah (livelihood). The person who seeks Hashem, who turns to Him even when everything looks impossible, will not lack what is truly good. This does not mean the money appears overnight. It means that Hashem provides what you need, when you need it, in ways you may not have expected. Our job is to seek Him; providing for us is His.

Rabbois ro’ois tzaddik, umikkulom yatzilenu Hashem “Many are the troubles of the righteous, but God saves him from them all.”

This pasuk does not pretend that life is easy. The word rabbois means many, and Dovid does not hide from that. A righteous person can face many troubles, including financial ones. But the promise is clear: umikkulom, from all of them, Hashem rescues. Not from some. From all. Our meforshim explain that the tzaddik’s troubles in this world are not signs of abandonment, but opportunities for growth — and Hashem promises that from all of them, He will rescue. You may be in the middle of this trouble right now, but Dovid’s promise is that the rescue will surely come.

How to Say This Tefillah

Say Kapitel 34 whenever the weight of the crisis presses down on you. Some people say it first thing in the morning, before the worries of the day begin. Others say it at night, when it is quiet and they can speak openly to Hashem. There is no wrong time. If you are standing in a parking lot after a difficult meeting and need to talk to Hashem, open Tehillim right there.

You can say it sitting or standing, in Hebrew or in English. If the Hebrew is hard to read, use the transliteration. Hashem is not listening for perfect pronunciation. He is listening for your heart.

Before you begin, set your kavanah (intention). You might say quietly: “Hashem, I am saying this kapitel because I am in a financial crisis and I need Your help. Please hear my voice.” When you reach korov Hashem l’nishb’rei leiv, pause for a moment and think about what it means. He is close to you right now.

There is a deep connection between tefillah and tzedakah. Tefillah is you reaching up to Hashem. Tzedakah is you reaching out to another Yid. When you bring both together, your tefillah rises with the power of your chesed behind it. Giving tzedakah in the zechus of Rabbi Meir Baal Haness is not davening to Rabbi Meir. It is asking Hashem to hear your tefillah in the combined merit of this great tzaddik and your own act of kindness. After saying the kapitel, you may add: Elokah d’Meir aneni!

Give Tzedakah in the Zechus of Rabbi Meir Baal Haness

The Gemara (Avodah Zarah 18a-18b) tells us that Rabbi Meir’s sister-in-law was held captive by the Romans in a terrible place. There was no natural way out. Rabbi Meir went to the guard and said, “Elokah d’Meir aneni” — and the gates opened. A person trapped in an impossible situation was brought to safety, not through power or money, but through trust in Hashem and the zechus of a tzaddik.

A financial crisis can feel like a prison of its own. The walls close in. The options disappear. When you give tzedakah in the zechus of Rabbi Meir Baal Haness, you are asking Hashem to open the gates of parnassah for you the way He opened those gates long ago. You are not davening to Rabbi Meir. You are asking Hashem, in the merit of this tzaddik and your own act of chesed, to hear your cry.

Rabbi Meir Baal Haness Charities was founded in 1799. The scholars in Tiberias daven for those who reach out to them. Your tzedakah supports Torah scholars and the poor in Eretz Yisrael. For generations, Yidden in times of crisis have turned to this zechus and have seen yeshuos.

What is the best prayer to say during a financial crisis?

Kapitel 34 of Tehillim is one of the primary tefillos said for times of financial desperation. Dovid HaMelech composed it at a moment when he had nothing to rely on except Hashem. The kapitel speaks directly about Hashem delivering the poor who cry out, being close to the brokenhearted, and providing for those who seek Him.

Does giving tzedakah during a financial crisis really help?

Chazal teach that tzedakah has the power to change a decree. Even a small amount, given with a full heart, carries tremendous spiritual weight. Giving when you yourself are in need is one of the most selfless things a person can do, and Hashem sees that sacrifice. You are not required to give beyond your means. Even a few coins given l'shem Shamayim count.

Who is Rabbi Meir Baal Haness and what does his zechus have to do with money?

Rabbi Meir was one of the great Tannaim whose tefillah was answered in an impossible situation. Giving tzedakah in his zechus is a tradition among Yidden facing all kinds of crises, including financial ones. It is not a prayer to Rabbi Meir. It is an act of chesed done in his merit, asking Hashem to hear your tefillah. Rabbi Meir Baal Haness Charities supports Torah scholars and the poor in Eretz Yisrael.

Can I say Kapitel 34 in English if I cannot read Hebrew?

Yes. Hashem understands every language. If the Hebrew is too difficult, use the English translation or the transliteration. What matters most is that you are speaking to Hashem from your heart.

What does "Elokah d'Meir aneni" mean?

God of Meir, answer me." These are the words Rabbi Meir cried out when he faced an impossible situation. Saying them after Kapitel 34, alongside giving tzedakah, is an expression of deep emunah that Hashem hears every cry.

A Blessing for Your Financial Recovery

Sometimes the weight of parnassah presses down on a person until it is hard to breathe. The fear of not having enough. The shame that comes with it. The sleepless nights spent worrying. And so you turned to Hashem in tefillah, and that itself is something precious.

May Hashem hear your tefillah and answer you with kindness. May the gates of parnassah open wide for you and your family. May every debt find a way to be settled, every worry find a way to be eased. May you see with your own eyes that Hashem provides, even when the situation looks impossible. And when you stand on the other side of this, b’ezras Hashem, may you look back and see His hand guiding you through it all. Hashem is close to the brokenhearted, and He is close to you right now.

You can submit a prayer request to the scholars of Tiberias at no cost — they will daven for you by name through Rabbi Meir Baal Haness Charities. And if you would like to give tzedakah in Rabbi Meir’s zechus as well, your kindness will rise together with your prayer.

Give Tzedakah in the Zechus of Rabbi Meir Baal Haness